We have so much to be thankful for this year. Even if I tried to express all of those things, I don’t think I could. So I’ll just list a bunch that come immediately to mind.
I am thankful for Michael and how he continues to love me, even on my grumpy days. I’m grateful for his support as a husband, his encouragement for me as a mother, and how proud he is of me for carrying, giving birth to, and exclusively breastfeeding our baby. I am thankful that he has welcomed fatherhood with open arms, and for how much he loves and adores our little girl.
I am thankful for my beautiful, healthy, happy daughter. I know I am wayyyy biased, but I think she is gorgeous and the cutest thing I have ever seen. I am so grateful for her daily smiles that make my heart do flips, and for the way she nuzzles into my neck when she is ready for sleep. I am thankful for the way she has grown and how she continues to thrive. And I am so excited to have a girl–I am eternally grateful for the opportunity to have a mother-daughter relationship with Nora.

I am thankful for a wonderful, healthy, full-term pregnancy that I was able to enjoy to the fullest. I will always remember the blessing that it was to carry a child inside of me.
I am thankful for a 5-hour, natural, pain-med free, uncomplicated birth experience. The pain was over in a flash, I had a beautiful baby girl placed in my arms, and it makes one hell of a story. :)
Although the pecking order has definitely changed and priorities have shifted, I am thankful for my Tessa girl. I am so glad that she has fully adjusted to having Nora in the house. She may not get as much attention as she used to, but she is still loved and is an important part of our family.
Lord knows I am not looking forward to leaving my baby and returning to work, but I am thankful to have a job to return to. In an economy when so many are still unemployed or underemployed, I am glad to have what I have. I am grateful to have a flexible, supportive employer who gave me the full 12 weeks off that I requested, with no questions asked. When Nora was born, I had only been with the company for six months, so they were not required to do me any favors. But they did, and I am thankful. The time I have had off with my new daughter has been invaluable and I will cherish it forever.
I am thankful for our home, even though it is small and we are quickly outgrowing it. It is warm, it is cozy, and it is ours.
I am thankful for our family and friends, and the continued health of all. Our parents, siblings, nephews, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins. Everyone.
There is so much more I could say. We are so totally blessed, and we recognize it. I hope all of you are able to count your blessings today, too.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Guess who has Christmas jammies?

And she’s pretty darn happy about it, too!
After the Great Pajama Search of 2010, I put out an emergency call to Grandma and Great-Grandma to find Nora some Christmas pajamas! They readily accepted the challenge.
In the meantime, I let my fingers do the walking this morning. I started online, finding that both JCPenney and BonTon supposedly carried the very same Carter’s pajamas (the butt! I can’t handle the butt!) that I really wanted for Nora. I called the nearest JCPenney to see if they had them in stock in her size, and sure enough–success with my very first phone call! They held them for me and Nora and I took a ride over there this afternoon to pick them up. And not only were they in stock, they were on sale. Score!
As it turns out, both Grandma and Great-Grandma found some Christmas jammies, too, so there’s a good chance Nora will end up with two, if not three pairs of Christmas pajamas.
Phew! Crisis averted. ;)
Thanks to all of you who weighed in with suggestions on where to go to find pajamas, though. It’s good to know that they are still in stock so many places–it has restored my faith in the respect for the turkey!
Now back to your regularly scheduled Thanksgiving programming. We can all talk Christmas again come Friday. :)
Hey, I gotta give myself a break. I’m new at this mommy thing. I’m bound to make a few mistakes along the way. My current “whoops”?
Nora is without Christmas pajamas.
Today, I had something to return at Carter’s, so I figured that while I was there, I would finally check out the Christmas racks and pick up Nora a pair of cute Christmas jammies. I made the return, got the store credit, and went to check out the racks… only to find one rack. One very small rack. There was only one pair of cute Christmas pajamas left, and well, they were size 9 months.
I couldn’t believe that this was all that they had, so I wandered around the store for a few minutes, thinking I’d surely stumble upon the rest. After I had searched high and low for the red and green, I happened upon a store employee, so I asked, “Is that all of the Christmas stuff you have left? That little rack up front?” She said yes, that’s it. I responded, “What the heck? It’s not even Thanksgiving!” She told me that they usually sell most of their Christmas inventory in October. October.
I left Carter’s, feeling kind of defeated, but determined to find my girl some Christmas jammies.
So I hit up Kohl’s. Pathetic.
I hit up Walmart. Nothing. Not even anything that resembled Christmas pajamas in baby sizes.
I hit up Target. None of them were cute.
I checked Old Navy. They didn’t have any in her size.
:::sigh:::
This is what I get for respecting the turkey.
Our cloth diapering intention has always been to ultimately move to using one-size pocket diapers.
Pocket diapers are what convinced me that cloth diapering would be worth doing. After all, once they’re put together, it’s essentially like putting on a disposable. Very easy. Plus, the pockets give you the ability to add extra absorbency as needed. So they’re also very flexible. And they’re darn cute, too. Oh, and the one-size adjustability means that baby can wear the same diapers from when they are little all the way up until they’re potty trained. So economical was also added into the “pros” column for pocket diapers.
But in my initial cloth diapering research, I discovered that the one-size pocket diaper doesn’t usually fit babies from birth–babies generally have to be in the 10-12 lb. range before they fit properly. As a result, we built a starter stash and began our cloth diaper journey with newborn prefolds and covers during the day, and disposables for overnight.
A few weeks back, even though Nora wasn’t yet 10 lbs. (she was about 8.5 lbs.), I decided to give the one-size pockets a try.

Now, let me back up for a minute and say that I wasn’t sure which one-size pocket diapers we would be going with. Based on reviews and popularity, I narrowed it down to two brands–bumGenius and Fuzzibunz. I ordered three of each diaper and figured we’d do our own little trial using both of them, then order the rest of our stash in whichever diaper we liked better.
I started by putting Nora in each of the diapers during the day. When we went several diaper changes without any leaks, I decided to put them to the test overnight, too. And now Nora hasn’t been in a single disposable diaper for weeks. Yayyy!
After testing out both the Fuzzibunz and bumGenius diapers, we ultimately decided to go with the bumGenius. The main reasons? I like the fit of the bumGenius better because they are slimmer. The Fuzzibunz are REALLY bulky, especially when they are double-stuffed for nighttime. They give Nora a ridiculous shelf butt, which is kind of hilarious. The other thing is that I like the snap closure better on the bumGenius; I find the snaps on the Fuzzibunz to be harder to fasten. Finally, I like the inner material of the bumGenius better; it seems to be softer and holds up better than the inner material on the Fuzzibunz. It’s a bummer, actually, because I *LOVE* the Fuzzibunz colors–they are bright and fun, while the bumGenius colors are all kind of boring and pastel. Oh well–gotta choose function over color. Anyway, if any of you have specific questions about Fuzzibunz vs. bumGenius, feel free to ask in the comments.

Sooo… we went ahead and ordered another six bumGenius diapers, bringing our total number of pocket diapers to 12 at the moment. We’re planning to ultimately have around 24, but right now, we’re still able to use the newborn prefolds/covers, so we have more than enough diapers to get by for several days with no laundry. Since I’m going back to work in two weeks, we’re getting ready to order another six bumGenius diapers to bring our total up to 18 before she goes to daycare.
Our daycare provider will be dealing exclusively with pocket diapers, so we’ll send the bumGenius dipes with Nora every day. The Fuzzibunz diapers have become strictly overnight diapers, since they’re bulkier and don’t fit as well under her clothes. As for the prefolds/covers–we’ll continue to use them at home as long as she fits into them, which I don’t anticipate will be very much longer. The covers are fine to fit her up until 18 lbs. since they’re adjustable, but the newborn prefolds typically only go to 10 lbs. and Nora is between 9.5-10 lbs. now.
For those of you who may not know much about pocket diapers or cloth diapers in general–I’m going to do a little photo demonstration of how they work. Up until now, we’ve been using “old-fashioned” cloth diapers with the prefold/cover system. It might be what you think of when you hear cloth diapers. Now, these are the modern versions!

This is a bumGenius 4.0 one-size pocket diaper with snap closures
(you can also get aplix closure if you prefer)
This diaper is single-stuffed with a newborn insert for daytime use

This is a Fuzzibunz one-size pocket diaper with snap closures
(again, you can get aplix if you prefer)
This diaper is double-stuffed for overnight absorbency
All brands of pocket diapers typically come with three pieces–the outer shell, a newborn (small) insert, and a standard (bigger) insert. I’ll just show you the bumGenius version and how it works, since all pocket dipes are pretty similar.

Here is the empty outer shell of the diaper. You can see the pocket at the top. That is where you put the inserts.

Here is the newborn insert. It’s thinner and shorter than the standard insert. Since Nora is still small and not a terribly heavy wetter, this is the insert we use for all daytime diapers (I typically change her every 2-3 hours).


In this pic, you can see the newborn insert inside of the diaper. So when everything is clean and dry, I sit down and stuff diapers to put in the diaper drawer. It doesn’t take too long, and when it’s all said and done, diaper changes are as easy as using disposables.

This is with the back flap folded over the insert. So this is what it looks like when I pull them out of the drawer to put them on Nora. Easy-peasy.


Pretty cool, huh?
Hopefully this has given you a bit of an overview about pocket diapers, and I’ve shared our plan for moving forward with this system. As always, please let me know if you have any questions. And don’t forget to check out my two previous posts (here and here) about cloth diapering if you haven’t read them already.
Also, stay tuned, as I will actually be reviewing a Blueberry cloth diaper within the next few weeks, and that review comes with a giveaway! :) Very exciting stuff.
We make sure to take at least one photo of Nora every day, and as a result, well… we have a lot of photos of Nora. I feel like it’s been a while since I’ve shared a bunch here, so I figured I’d do so tonight. All of these are from within the last two weeks. Without further ado…













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I'm Heather. I'm 33 and have been married to Michael for seven years. Together, we have two beautiful little girls we love more than anything, and a miniature dachshund who drives us crazy. I'm a full-time working mom who has very little time for my own "stuff" these days, like home improvement, cooking/baking, cake decorating, and photography. Despite the team not making the playoffs since 1999, I'm STILL a Buffalo Bills fan, which I think speaks to my loyalty AND sense of humor. I can't wait to pick up the pace with travel again some day... you know, when we're done being ruled by tiny fists. Welcome to my blog.The Address
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