It has been a few weeks, so I figure it is probably time for an update on Tessa.

Unfortunately, her lymph nodes still have not gone down. In fact, it seems as if they have actually gotten somewhat bigger. We are halfway through a month of antibiotics (that are really just a precaution). I called the vet on Wednesday to talk to him again and he said that he truly just believes that they are going to take a long time to go down. He reassured me that we have ruled out all of the “really scary” things.

Even so, I am still apprehensive about it. I guess the thing that bothers me most is just not having an answer. There is no definitive diagnosis for her condition, so the mystery is what frustrates me.

At this point, we’re at least trying to wait it out through the end of the antibiotics. Although, the doctor admits that he doesn’t think the antibiotics are what will cause the lymph nodes to go down. He thinks that when they do eventually go down (IF they ever go down!), it will just be on their own.

I did talk to a woman online who said that her dachshund’s lymph nodes have been swollen like this for most of his life. I think she said he’s 6 years old. So yeah… who knows. Just more waiting and hoping and wondering…

I had to include this photo of Tess. That object? The one she has clenched between her teeth and is holding onto with a death grip?

It’s Michael’s winter hat.

It seems as though Tessa believes that this is her personal toy. Last winter, she got a hold of it and actually ripped a little bit of the fold around the edge. So Michael’s hat has a permanent little sign that “Tessa was here.”

A couple of weeks ago, I was sitting on the couch and all of sudden, Tess comes from around the corner with Michael’s hat in her mouth. Defiantly, as if it belongs to her. Michael proceeded to pick her up and try to get it away from her, but she held on. Tightly.

Bad dog. :)

 

This is a recipe that my mother-in-law first made for us a couple of years ago.

Don’t be weirded out by the yogurt. When she first handed me the recipe, I sure as hell was. But I figured–hey, I had already eaten it, and it was delicious. So something about it was right.

Just a tip… we usually make these the same week we make chicken noodle soup. Why? Well, because when making the soup, it’s really easy to cook up some extra chicken. We shred the extra chicken and stick it in the fridge until later in the week, when we can make these tasty enchiladas! There’s some decent prep time required for these, but they’re still pretty easy for a weeknight.

These were impossible to get good photos of, so I apologize for the crappy photography tonight. They are good, I promise.

Saucy Chicken Enchiladas
(Source: http://www.colomboyogurt.com/)

Ingredients:
– 1 1/2 cups nonfat or low-fat plain yogurt
– 3/4 cup chopped red bell pepper
– 3/4 cup mild salsa (we use medium)
– 1 tablespoon onion powder
– 1 tablespoon chili powder
– 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
– 2 cans (10 3/4 ounces each) condensed 98% fat-free cream of chicken soup (we use Campbell’s Healthy Request, which is also low sodium)
– 3 cups cut-up cooked chicken (as previously mentioned, we shred ours)
– 10 flour tortillas (8 inches in diameter) (we used 8 wheat tortillas, 10″ in diameter)
– 2 1/2 cups shredded low-fat Cheddar cheese (12 ounces)

Directions:
1. Heat oven to 350°F. Spray rectangular pan, 13″ x 9″, with cooking spray.

2. Stir together yogurt, bell pepper, salsa, onion powder, chili powder, garlic powder and soup. Divide sauce mixture in half; stir chicken into one half.

3. Place slightly less than 1/2 cup chicken mixture on center of each tortilla; spread to within 1/2 inch of edge. Sprinkle each with about 2 tablespoons cheese. Roll up and place seam side down in pan. Pour remaining sauce over enchiladas; sprinkle with remaining cheese. Cover with aluminum foil.

4. Bake 30 minutes. Remove aluminum foil; bake 5 to 10 minutes longer or until hot and bubbly.

 

People always seem to be more generous around the holidays.

Maybe it’s because we are in the “giving spirit,” maybe we tend to be more thankful for what we have and think others should have it, too… or maybe it’s just because we want to get in our donations so we can write them off on our 2008 tax returns.

Whatever the reason, it’s never a bad reason to give.

This year, it’s likely that charities may not see the same generosity as usual. The economy is in the crapper, and the truth is that many families are stretching their money just to make ends meet.

With that said, if you can afford to, you should think about making your donations. If you’ve never given before, you should research a cause that means something to you, and concentrate your efforts there. Everyone needs help, and there are so many organizations worthy of your dollar.

If you can’t afford to give monetarily, try to be a little creative. What can you give?

Maybe it’s your time. Become a volunteer.

Maybe it’s your talent or your resources. Make an in-kind donation.

Maybe it’s your blood.


Yes, I said blood. This morning, I donated mine. I’ve done it countless times now, and it’s something I think is really important to do. In fact, I wish more people would do it. Did you know that approximately 60% of the population is eligible to donate blood, but less than 5% actually do?

If you’ve never done it because you’re afraid of needles, I hope you’ll reconsider.

I used to be deathly afraid of needles. I first signed up to try to donate blood in high school, but I ultimately got denied because I nearly had a panic attack and my blood pressure skyrocketed so high that they had to reject me.

Sadly, I didn’t try again until I was 22 years old. I didn’t try again until I felt like I had a reason to try again.

In the summer of 2004, I started reading Jenny Scott’s blog. I’ve talked about it before. That year, Jenny’s baby daughter was diagnosed with leukemia, and she chronicled the day-to-day life with Allie as she battled the disease. From the time of her diagnosis up until Allie died in September 2004 at only 9 months of age, she received something like *85* blood transfusions. Because of blood donors, Jenny got to hold onto her baby girl just a little bit longer. And in a time when every moment counted, I know that Jenny was appreciative of those anonymous blood donors. In fact, she still is. (As a side note, Allie was also the reason I put myself on the National Bone Marrow Registry.)

So here’s the thing. It was December 17, 2004–what would have been Allie’s 1st birthday. I don’t know Jenny, and I didn’t know Allie. I don’t live anywhere near Texas. But the Red Cross was holding a blood drive in the building in which I worked. I figured–if that little baby could go through leukemia, chemotherapy, needle pokes and prods, and still have a smile on her face–I could handle a needle in my arm.

It was on that day that I became a blood donor.

Four years later, I’m still donating whenever I can. I’m lucky that the “blood mobile” makes trips to my workplace approximately every two months, so donating is convenient. But I have also made appointments at my local American Red Cross location and gone in on my own time, too. The whole process takes about an hour, but the blood donation part is 10-20 minutes. You will walk out knowing that you did something good for somebody. You likely helped save a life.

I’m not going to lie. I still get apprehensive every time I lie down on that cot. I have never looked at the needle. I don’t enjoy the experience, and in fact, I’ve had some bad ones (it’s bound to happen with how many times I’ve given). But the fact of the matter is, even with the bad experiences, it’s still not that bad. I’ve always gone back again, which I think says a lot.

So, again, if the needle stick is your issue… get over it! From one wimp to another–I know you can do it. I survived (and survived, and survived…), and you will, too.

(Yes, I’m well aware of what a huge nerd I am.)

This holiday season, I’m going to try to find ways to give to others. I’ll be sure to share with all of you. And I challenge you to do the same.

Be thankful for what you have, and give back. Pay it forward.

(Oh, and please come back and tell me how you did it!)
 

I’m feeling the crunch.

With Thanksgiving falling so late in November this year, our Christmas season is shorter than usual. That means I only have three weeks to go. And the bad news is that aside from something we bought for our brother-in-law, we have absolutely nothing purchased for anybody. *gulp*

On Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, we did break out the Christmas decorations and set most of them up. I’ll post pictures–hopefully later this week. The house is still a bit of a mess because we haven’t had a chance to put the Christmas decoration boxes back in the storage space in the garage.

I love Christmas lights! They are my favorite. It’s so nice to relax in the evenings at home with the Christmas lights (and tree) on.

I figured now that it’s time to be festive, I might as well give Heather Drive a little holiday makeover as well. Check out the new header. :)

‘Tis the season to be jolly. Roll with it.

 

Yesterday, we went over to my in-laws’ house for Thanksgiving with Michael’s family. His aunt, uncle, grandfather, cousins, sisters, parents… quite a crowd. And of course, our beloved nephew, Brendan. It was fun.

The best part when we do this every year is that we don’t have turkey again–instead, we eat something else fabulous. My mother-in-law made beef and cabbage in the crockpot, as well as a Mexican lasagna (which was delish!). Plus, we had all of the snacks and desserts we could bear.

I was so. full. Worse than actual Thanksgiving!

Several pics from the day:

Ticklish!

Cousins–Michael and his two sisters, and two of his cousins.

Brendan in his new hat. Too damn cute.

Cristina and me, together again (see first Thanksgiving post)–haha

Ladies! Only Michael’s mom is missing.

Brendan with his “woobie,” and his favorite book (Brown Bear)

Uncle Michael reading Brendan’s book to him. Love it.

Looking at Uncle Michael. Awww.

Aside from not wanting to go back to work and normal life, I really do need this weekend to end so I can go back to eating normally. My lord.

And this is only the beginning of the holiday eating! Yikes.