Once again, it’s been nearly a week since my last update. All of our time and energy has been going into the house. This past weekend, we put the “labor” in Labor Day–it was insane. We have deemed tonight the “cut-off night” for home improvement projects; starting tomorrow, it will be all about organizing, cleaning, and preparing for a certain little girl’s first birthday party this weekend. It won’t be anything like I originally dreamed it would be (I had to let a lot of things go due to the crazy state of our lives), but let’s face it, she is 1–she will not ever know the difference. Family and friends will be there to celebrate, she’ll have a cake to smash, and that will be all that really matters.
Anyway, I wanted to share this quick video we took this morning. Nora is finally starting to eat more finger foods (although I still feel like we feed her the same things EVERY.DAY) and she happens to love cereal. It should be noted that at the time of this video, she had already eaten her cereal, and had also nursed. I was stuffing my face with my own breakfast before flying out the door, and, well… you’ll see.
Little thief.
Or, at least that’s what they say. So y’all have to be IN LOVE with me by now, right?
Kidding.
Seriously, though, I miss everyone. I miss writing. But believe me when I say that there is just NO.TIME. I have high hopes that life will return to some semblance of normal in mid-September. We shall see.
I did want to drop in for a little update, though.
First of all–we’ve reached a resolution (albeit a temporary one) with the condo. Last week, we were still meeting with potential tenants (found through Craigslist) pretty much every day. Things were getting somewhat discouraging. We had a lot of traffic, but no one had gone so far as to submit an application or make a friggin’ decision.
On Thursday, however, we met with a woman who spent five minutes walking through the place and then turned to us and said the magic words, “I like it. I want to fill out an application.” Music to our ears, I’ll tell you. Things seemed good from the start, except for one thing–she couldn’t move in until October 1st at the earliest. This wasn’t entirely unexpected, given that we were now in the last full week of August, and most people cannot pick up and move within a week or so. But still, we figured if we could get a lease signed–great. It beats living with the burden of knowing we have an empty property for who-knows-how-long. So, when I got back to the office, I quickly shot her an e-mail with the application.
Meanwhile, our friends came back into the picture. You know, the ones who I told you about a few weeks back, who actually responded to our ad on Craigslist without knowing it was our place. It was only through e-mail that we discovered each other’s true identities. HA! Anyway, when that first came about, we were hesitant to rent to friends (you know, the whole mixing personal and business thing), but brought them by to look at the unit anyway. After some consideration, they decided to keep looking because our town was not their first choice location. We figured it wasn’t meant to be, and let it go, continuing to look for tenants through Craigslist.
Well, fast-forward to last week. A few weeks had passed from our initial conversations with our friends. We hadn’t yet found tenants. They hadn’t yet found a place, either. And so we somehow ended up back together, in a full-circle moment. They came back to us, asking if we would be willing to do a six-month lease with them, because now they’re actually not even sure if they’re going to stay in the state–they’re considering moving south in the spring. After discussing, Michael and I countered, asking if they would bump it up to an 8-month lease instead. We didn’t want to end up with an empty property in February, because it’s a crappy time of year to try to rent/sell.
Done deal. Lease was signed that same evening. Win-win situation for all. Or, at least it should be, if everything goes according to plan. Which we think it will.
We still could’ve moved forward with the application and signing the lease with a stranger, but there were some obvious cons associated with that arrangement–the biggest of which was the timing. With her, we would’ve been entering into an October 1 to September 30 lease, and let’s face it–that is not the best time of year to be doing ANYTHING related to the real estate market in this area. In a year (or whenever she decided to vacate), when we accounted for transition/vacancy period, we would likely have been looking for a new tenant for November 1 or later, which is not ideal. Plus, trying to put the condo back on the market that late in the year was not going to be great for us, either.
With our friends, the lease runs through April 30. Sure, it would’ve been nice to be able to breathe a little easier for a whole year instead of just 8 months, but this way, our friends have the option to move out of the area in the spring, and we are able to put the condo back on the market during the “best” time of year to do so. In the meantime, we’ll be able to look for new tenants as well, and the spring/early summer is the best time for that, too.
Oh, and did I mention that our friends already moved in? :) That was one of the other benefits–they were actually squatting at his parents’ house with most of their stuff in storage, so they were MORE THAN READY to get out. We signed the lease on Thursday night, they moved in on Sunday. And we were paid rent for September, saving us from that mortgage payment–meaning we never had to pay for the condo for any sort of vacancy period. AND they didn’t want us to bother repainting the place for them.
Seriously.
With that quick turnaround, though, came some added stress, of course. On Friday morning, the condo was NOWHERE NEAR move-in ready. We still had random stuff around. There were holes in the walls from our frames and such. Everything needed to be scrubbed like whoa.
After Nora went to bed on Friday night, I spent 4.5 hours at the condo by myself, removing the rest of our stuff, cleaning blinds, spackling holes, etc. etc. Then, on Saturday, we had to spend the majority of the day out of town for our nephew’s birthday. When we returned in the evening, I put Nora to bed and once again went over to the condo–but my mom came with me to help. And thank goodness, because the two of us spent 6.5 hours finishing the place. By the time we were done, we had scrubbed every nook and cranny. I painted touch-ups on the walls where we had spackled. I caulked. We swept out the garage. I pulled weeds. My mom made the kitchen and bathroom SPOTLESS.
And it was also 2:00 a.m. It sucked. But it was done.
(For the record, Michael was home working on some “new house” projects during all of this. Someone had to stay back with Nora. I just don’t want anyone to be all, “Where was Michael in all of this?”)
In short, I learned that preparing for tenants is ridiculously hard work. It was like preparing for house guests x 1,000. Especially since *we* had been the ones living there, and we knew the tenants moving in–we didn’t want them to discover any grime and think, “OMG, Heather and Michael are so disgusting!” :)
As much as it REALLY stunk to miss out on all of those hours working on the new house, it was nice to have a resolution for the condo, and so quickly. We took the condo off the market, and will plan to re-list in (likely) March to see what happens. Our friends have already said that they’d do everything to help us sell it when the time comes–keeping it clean for showings and such. (Add another point in the “why this arrangement works” column.)
So, now we are back to busting our asses on the new house in prep for our very first house guest (yayyy for having room for house guests!)–MY DAD–who arrives next Friday for Nora’s birthday party. And, you know, all of the short-term guests we will have at the actual party. Eeeek! Every night, we come home from work, feed/play with Nora, put her to bed, eat something ourselves, and work until 11:30-ish, falling into bed (hopefully) by midnight. It’s exhausting.
Oh, and this has got to be Nora’s least-photographed month of her life. :( It’s sad; I feel like time is slipping away. We are so close to the big birthday! I hope to make up for it in the next few weeks.
That’s the latest. Hopefully I’ll be back with more soon!
Nora is my baby, y’all.

I’m alive!

As you can see, we are dealing with some BEAUTIFUL carpet. And by “dealing,” I mean RIPPING THAT SHIT OUT.






Tonight is our last night in our condo–the place we have called home for six years, one month, and 19 days.
I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t really sad to pack up all of our stuff. I’d also be lying if I said I didn’t shed a few tears as I got Nora ready for bed tonight.
It’s just a bittersweet life event, I suppose.
Added to the stress is that we still have no answers about our condo. The potential buyer who came through twice early last week contacted us on Monday, asking us to provide measurements for some of the rooms in our place. Seemed like a positive thing, because if she was wondering about measurements, she was trying to picture her life here in the condo. It at least meant we certainly weren’t out of the running yet.
But since then, nothing. Apparently she’s not in any hurry to make a decision.
We’ve had little luck with potential tenants as well. The one who we thought was a sure thing a few weeks ago is still dragging her heels. Any new ones we’ve met have not amounted in anything, either.
It’s making us nervous.
We are meeting with another person on Sunday, and I have my fingers crossed SO HARD. It’ll be the first person to see the place vacant, so I guess we’ll see if that’s an advantage or disadvantage.
But for now, I’m trying to concentrate on the positive. Today, I *finally* got some of the painting done in Nora’s room. And even though it’s not going to be finished for another few days at least, seeing the color start to come alive on her walls made it feel just a little bit like home.
I have so much I want to share (including PHOTOS!), but seriously no time to do it right now. I hope you’ll all bear with me during this period of my life, since it is such a huge adjustment–I’d argue that this transition is much more difficult on me than it was to have a newborn baby!
To make blogging matters even more difficult, we’re not going to have internet service at our house until August 30th (thanks for nothin’, Time Warner). Soooo… hopefully I’ll have a few minutes during a couple of lunch breaks to type up a few quick updates for y’all within the next 10 days. But we shall see.
I appreciate all of the well wishes everyone has been sending our way over the last several weeks and months, and I don’t want to be greedy, so I won’t ask for them again. I do hope, however, that I’m able to share good news with you very soon.
Hopefully very, very soon.
Life is overwhelming right now. Truly overwhelming. And guess what? We have a certain little lady’s FIRST BIRTHDAY PARTY(!!!) in three weeks. Holy cow. So, stay tuned for that as well.
Here I am, signing out from the condo for the very last time…
I’ll be back!
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I'm Heather. I'm 33 and have been married to Michael for seven years. Together, we have two beautiful little girls we love more than anything, and a miniature dachshund who drives us crazy. I'm a full-time working mom who has very little time for my own "stuff" these days, like home improvement, cooking/baking, cake decorating, and photography. Despite the team not making the playoffs since 1999, I'm STILL a Buffalo Bills fan, which I think speaks to my loyalty AND sense of humor. I can't wait to pick up the pace with travel again some day... you know, when we're done being ruled by tiny fists. Welcome to my blog.The Address
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