I’ve been slacking on these lists. Oops!
Blog Activity, Day Three
Eight Ways to Win Your Heart

1. Be good to babies and children. Love them as much as I do.

2. FOOD. I may be somewhat picky, but I love good food. Don’t they always say that the way to a person’s heart is through his/her stomach?
3. Distaste for GWB, Brett Favre, Sarah Palin, Ann Coulter, Tom Cruise, Tom Brady, or Kate Gosselin. If we share hatred for someone, we’ll go a long way together.
4. Creativity. Whether it’s something as simple as a homemade card, or more complicated like some crazy craft project. Or maybe you take killer photographs. Regardless of your craft–if I’m impressed, you’ll win me over for sure.
5. Little surprises. I love surprises. I love planning surprises for others, and love being surprised as well. Small gestures (especially for no reason!) go a long way in showing someone you care.
6. Laughter. I love funny people.
7. Travel. There is nothing like the experience of traveling with someone. The things you do, the stories you come home with… it forms a bond for life!
8. Teach me. If you know something I don’t, take the time to teach me. I love to learn new things.
 

I am shamelessly stealing this post directly from Shauna, but substituting in my own answers (obviously). We’re in the final countdown, and we might as well fill the time with a little bit of last-minute fun with the guessing the sex of the baby, right?

There are many old wives’ tales and “methods” of supposedly figuring out whether the baby is a boy or a girl.

CHINESE GENDER CHARTS:
(These use the mother’s age at conception and month of conception to determine the sex)

Chart #1 = BOY

Chart #2 = BOY
Chart #3 = BOY

Chart #4 = GIRL
Chart #5 = BOY
Looks like the charts are pretty consistent! The verdict here is definitely BOY.

The one that is different specifically says to use the mother’s “lunar age,” which differs from calendar age. So, that one yielded a different result.

I’ve heard varying things about the accuracy of Chinese gender charts, so I guess we’ll see if it works for us or not…

OLD WIVES’ TALES:

Mayans
The Mayans determined the sex of the baby by taking the mother’s age at conception, and the year of conception. If both are even or both are odd… it’s a girl. If one is even and one is odd… it’s a boy. I was 27 and it was 2009.
=GIRL

Nausea
The old wives tale is that a girl will make you more nauseous. I didn’t have a whole lot of morning sickness. Lucky me!
=BOY

Heart Rate
The old wives tales is if the heart rate is above 140, it’s a girl. If it’s below 140, it’s a boy. The heart rate has consistently been up over 140.
=GIRL

Cravings
The old wives tale is that if you crave sweets, it’s a girl. If you crave sour, it’s a boy. I really haven’t experienced very many “cravings” throughout the pregnancy. The only one I ever felt was a true craving was when I couldn’t get enough yellow mustard (first trimester). I guess I consider that more “sour,” so…
=BOY

Husband’s Weight Gain
The old wives tale is that if your husband puts on weight during the pregnancy, it will be a girl. Michael has most certainly not put on any weight.
=BOY

Acne
The old wives tale is that a girl will cause acne because she is doubling your hormones. I don’t have any acne to speak of.
=BOY

Clumsiness
The old wives tales is that if you are clumsier than before, it’s a boy. If you are as graceful as ever, it’s a girl. Definitely not clumsy.
=GIRL

Boobs
The old wives tale is that if your boobs grow a lot, it’s a girl. The boobs are out of control. By the time I was four months pregnant, I had to go out and buy bras in a size that was two band sizes and two cup sizes bigger than normal. And I’ve since had to buy bra extenders because even those bigger bras grew to be too tight. Annnd when I got measured for a nursing bra a couple of weeks ago? Let’s just say I never thought I would see THOSE letters in my bra size.
=GIRL

Sleep
The old wives tale is that if you prefer to sleep on your right side, it’s a boy. If you prefer to sleep on your left side, it’s a girl. God, I would just prefer to SLEEP at this point. Neither position is particularly comfortable; I have to rotate pretty regularly throughout the night. But if I’m sleeping on my side, I generally prefer the right, so…
=BOY

Hands
The old wives tale is that if you have softer hands, it’s a girl. Rougher hands, it’s a boy. My hands are pretty soft!
=GIRL

High or Low
The old wives tale is that if you feel heaviness down low, it’s a boy. If you feel pressure up higher, it’s a girl. I’ve definitely been carrying this baby high.
=GIRL

The verdict here? Pretty split.
GIRL = 6
BOY = 5

Almost 50/50! Hmmm…

It’s only a matter of time before we’ll know for sure. Send “labor” thoughts my way, people… I want this baby out! :)

 

Well, here we are… 38 weeks. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that I won’t be doing a 39-week post, but I know it’s very likely that I will.

I’m just READY.

Plus, living in anticipation is killing me. I’m a planner; this not-knowing stuff is hard for me. Will my life be the same tomorrow, or totally and completely different? Will I be at work next week? On Friday? Tomorrow?


38 Weeks Pregnant

More than anything, I have this feeling like the baby will come when he/she should. Like things will work out how they are supposed to. The biggest thing is that my mom travels every week for work. Most of the time, she’s gone Monday through Friday. She’s afraid she’s going to miss the birth, and frankly, I’d like her to be here, too! So, well, that leaves the weekends. OR… this week. You see, because of the Labor Day holiday, my mom is scheduled to work in town all this week. So, you know… that would be convenient, right?

Still, I know the baby will come when it’s time. I just wish I knew when that was going to be!

I’m starting to get all the phone calls/texts/e-mails/Facebook messages asking the same things–how am I feeling, is anything different, what was the latest at the doctor, when is my next appointment. I honestly don’t mind the questions, but it does help fuel the anticipation a bit.

At my doctor’s appointment on Thursday, I was 1.5 cm dilated, 60% effaced. This was just a little bit of progress from the 1 cm, 50% effaced I was the week before. What was really weird is that the doctor told us she can feel the top of the baby’s head. Um, WHOA. That right there is a reality check.

In other news, my belly was still measuring small, but my weight gain has been good–I’m up a total of like 25-26 lbs. so far. Of a little bit of concern is the fact that my blood pressure has apparently been “creeping up” over the last 3-4 appointments. My doctor showed me a graph that showed the rise in blood pressure. Weird, since no one had mentioned it to me prior to last appointment. I typically have a really low, healthy blood pressure–in fact, at 32 weeks, I posted about how great it was that it was still hanging out at 100/68. My doctor didn’t tell me what it’s up to (I’m stupid, I should have asked), but she said that it’s not quite at an “abnormal” level yet. I guess since I started off low, it had room to “grow” and remain within normal range. Still, she told me to closely monitor my level of swelling, and to call if there are any big changes or if I experience any headaches. I think they’re mildly concerned about the possible development of pre-eclampsia, but my urine is still clear of protein so for now we’re OK. I’m curious to see if there will be any change at my next appointment on Thursday of this week.

I’ve also been experiencing some minor contractions, but they’re nothing of significance yet, unfortunately. Hopefully they’re making progress for me, though, because I’m anxiously awaiting the “real thing”!

I’m having trouble sleeping. Sometimes, when I wake up in the middle of the night to pee (still consistently getting up 4-5 times per night), I have trouble going back to sleep. Or I’ll be completely exhausted but still can’t drift off. I guess it’s a bit of insomnia. I slept like total crap on both Friday and Saturday nights this weekend, but finally got what felt to be a good night’s sleep last night. But somehow, I still feel exhausted today. *sigh* Such is life.

Last week, we dealt with 90-degree temperatures every day, and then, starting Saturday, the temperature plummeted like 30 degrees and it’s been feeling rather fall-like out. It’s perfectly fine by me, as I think it’s quite comfortable now. However, I HAVE NO CLOTHES. I seriously have like two long-sleeve shirts that fit over my belly. Everything else is short-sleeve since I’ve been pregnant all SUMMER. I have no idea what I’m going to wear to work tomorrow; I’m not prepared for this “fall” shit!

We’ve started all of the “tricks” to try to induce labor. I’m not doing anything crazy, but all of the little things–walking, spicy food, etc. Last night, I got hot sauce on my burger even though I would normally never do so, and tonight my mother-in-law made eggplant parmesan for dinner. (She actually had no idea that eggplant parmesan was supposedly a labor-inducer; it was just a funny coincidence!) So far, nothing has done the trick.

We also finally packed the hospital bags. I’m still going to need to do some last-minute throwing of things in the bag, but we pre-packed everything that we could, and made a good list for everything else so we wouldn’t forget anything.

We are ready. It’s time. I keep telling the baby to come on out of there! The outside world is a lot of fun! :)

 

Words cannot express how much I love this picture.

I’d say someone is going to be an awfully good daddy. I can’t wait.

 

As part of the preparation for the birth of our baby, we’ve been stocking up on some of the essentials we keep in the house. This includes FOOD!

Last weekend, the “nesting” bug really kicked in and I was determined to fill our freezer with easy meals that will help us out on those nights when we just really don’t want to cook. I made a list of recipes that I wanted to make and freeze, made a long grocery list, and we hit the ground running. I spent six hours in the kitchen on Sunday night, and another three hours in the kitchen on Monday night. The result is a totally stocked freezer!

Check it out:

Not bad, right?

I’ve been planning to write this post since before I even started this “project,” but even so, I received messages from some of you asking me to post it because so many people are curious about the best meals to freeze and how to go about doing it all.

So, let’s go through everything that’s in the freezer (with links to recipes, as appropriate):

  • 18 (1 lb.) packs of chicken breasts – We buy the club packs (cheaper per pound!) and I trim the fat off of everything and split them into 1 lb. portions to make it easier. We do this on a regular basis, but don’t usually have quite so many bags saved up. But we figured the more we had saved, the easier things would be down the road.
  • Ground beef (1 lb. packs) – We do the same thing as with chicken–buy the club packs and split them up. We only have three packs of beef on hand right now, but we don’t eat it very often, so those will probably last a while.
  • Three packs of turkey bacon – This is just something good to have on hand. We buy the three-pack at BJ’s (great price on them), and freeze them. BLTs make super easy dinners, plus it’s good to have on hand to add to certain soups, salads, etc.
  • Blueberries – As I mentioned in my blueberry muffin post, we stocked up on these when they were in season and on sale for several weeks in a row. (We also picked some wild blueberries of our own!) Good to have on hand for pancakes, muffins, etc.
  • Muffins – I baked up a batch of low-fat blueberry muffins, let them cool completely, then froze them in a gallon zip-loc freezer bag. When we want to eat them, we can remove individual muffins. If we’re in a hurry, they can be defrosted in the microwave, but my favorite way to defrost baked goods is always at room temperature. It just requires a little planning ahead!
  • Banana bread – My favorite low-fat banana bread! I baked the loaf as normal, let it cool overnight, wrapped it tightly in foil, then stuck it in a gallon-size freezer bag and popped it into the freezer. Quick breads usually freeze really well. After defrosting at room temperature, they’re generally just as good as they are when they are freshly baked. Yum!
  • Enchiladas – We made two trays of enchiladas (seven enchiladas in each one) by preparing one recipe of saucy chicken enchiladas. We cooked and shredded the chicken, then assembled the enchiladas as if we would be baking them right away. We used 8″ tortillas so they would fit nicely into the disposable baking pans. Then, instead of throwing them into the oven, we threw them into the freezer instead. We’ll get two separate meals out of this. These can be baked straight from the freezer (no defrosting required); we’ll just need to increase the normal cooking time by 10-15 minutes our so.
  • Chicken Salsa Verde Bake – We prepared the recipe as normal, and then–same thing as the enchiladas–just froze it instead of baking it. Again, we’ll likely bake this directly from the freezer, simply increasing the baking time to account for its frozen state.
  • Soup – This is one of our favorites, asian chicken noodle soup. The only thing we did differently here was to cook the noodles for less time than normal. Once all of the ingredients were incorporated, I scooped all of the soup into a gallon zip bag, then put the bag into an ice bath to quickly cool it down. Once cool enough, I froze the bag flat in the freezer for easy storage. To eat, we’ll defrost in the refrigerator in advance, then dump the contents into a sauce pan and cook until hot.
  • Meatballs & Sauce – Spaghetti and meatballs! Well, we didn’t freeze the spaghetti part. On Sunday, I actually made a double batch of the sauce/meatballs. We ate one batch for dinner that night (with leftovers throughout this week), and the second batch went into the freezer for after baby. Again, just scooped the meatballs and sauce into a gallon zip bag, gave it an ice bath, then froze it flat in the freezer. This will also be defrosted in the refrigerator, then reheated on the stovetop.
  • Two bags of pizza dough – We’ve frozen this dough before, and it’s great to have on hand for making pizza without much effort. The dough is made in the bread machine, and I always split it into two batches since it’s just the two of us. To feed more than two, you should use the whole batch. This is best defrosted in the fridge, then needs to sit and rise at room temperature for a while. Roll out and bake as normal!
  • Potstickers Alton Brown’s Perfect Potstickers. We actually made this batch a while back, but still have them in our freezer, and they’ll be perfect for an easy meal after baby arrives. These can be cooked in the pan, directly from frozen. Just add an extra minute or two.
  • Ice cream – Ummm, just for fun. :) Actually, we needed to remove our ice cream maker from the freezer to make room for all of these meals, so we figured that we may as well put it to good use while it was still frozen. This is a “No Dough Cookie Ice Cream” and a recipe post and review will be coming soon.

OK, so there you have it–a summary of everything that we made to freeze. I still have plans to make up a batch of pizza rolls to freeze as well (I’ll freeze them before baking, then bake directly from the freezer), but we’ll see if I get to it.

In general, soups, stews, casseroles, and sauces freeze really well. Enchiladas, lasagnas, etc. are good, too. The USDA website has a helpful section about the different types of food and how long it can stay frozen for. For the enchiladas and the chicken salsa verde bake, we bought disposable/recyclable baking pans so we weren’t sacrificing all of our baking pans to the freezer. Everything else freezes well in zip freezer bags.

I think that sums up my knowledge on the subject, so I hope this post was helpful to all of you who were wondering. I must say, though… a stocked freezer did not come easy! I’ll leave you with several photos of the gigantic mess I made in the kitchen during the two-day process–and we didn’t even take pictures of everything! :) Thankfully Michael was around to help out, because the dishes were OUT.OF.CONTROL.