Hi everyone—

Just a quick note to remind you to enter my Kidz Gear Headphones giveaway, as it ends at midnight TONIGHT! You have just a handful of hours left to enter for your chance(s) to win.

They certainly wouldn’t be a bad way to kick off the Christmas shopping season, eh? They’d make a great stocking stuffer. :)

For the full review and to enter the giveaway, see my original Kidz Gear Headphones Review & Giveaway post. Good luck! I’ll announce the winner tomorrow.

 

It’s been a while since I’ve posted about cloth diapering, but Nora is two years and two months old, and we are still going strong. We’ve touched on potty training (more on that in another post, I suppose!) but our girl just isn’t ready yet. So she continues to sport a fluffy butt, and with every passing day, we are saving more and more money.

If you’re interested in learning more about our cloth diaper journey, check out these past posts:

With that last one—the overnight leaks—I don’t think I ever updated about our solution. Honestly, we’ve been using disposables at nighttime ever since. We used Huggies Overnights at first, but soon discovered that generic disposables (Wegmans or Target) work just fine for Nora. It’s not ideal—of course we would’ve liked to continue cloth diapering around the clock—but using one disposable per day is not a big deal. And I’m actually happy we made it to 14 months being able to use cloth overnight, because it seems like a lot of the other cloth diaper mamas I know don’t even make it that long. The overnight wetting/leaking, in my experience, is an inevitable problem—it’s not about IF you will experience it, but when.

Anyway, a few weeks ago, a reader e-mailed me asking about the cost of cloth diapering. I had never added it up—or at least I hadn’t added it up in a very long time—so curiosity got the best of me (plus, I wanted to help). I sat down one night and went back through my cloth diaper and accessories ordering history and added up everything to share with her. And now, I want to share with you. This type of information was supremely helpful to me when I was researching, so I hope it’s useful for some of you.

ITEMS PRICE ORDER DATE
(24) Unbleached prefolds (Newborn size)
(1) Triple Pack of Snappi Fasteners
$56.50 (August 2010)
Planet Wise Pail Liner
(4) Thirsties Duo Wraps (Size 1)
Planet Wise Wet Bag
$80.71 (August 2010)
(1) Thirsties Duo Wrap (Size 1)
Planet Wise Pail Liner
Planet Wise Wet Bag
$43.69 (October 2010)
(3) Fuzzibunz One-Size Diapers
(3) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diapers
$107.30 (October 2010)
(6) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diapers
$99.46 (November 2010)
(6) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diapers
$86.90 (November 2010 – On Sale)
(1) Blueberry One-Size Diaper
$0.00 (December 2010 – Given to me for review)
(3) Blueberry One-Size Diapers
$56.86 (December 2010)
(1) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diaper
$16.15 (December 2010)
(2) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diapers
$34.10 (January 2011)
(6) Blueberry Hemp Inserts
$0.90 (June 2011 – Used Abby’s Lane Rewards)
(3) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diapers
$48.44 (February 2012 – Replacing three of the Blueberry diapers that I sold)
(1) BumGenius 4.0 One-Size Diaper
$7.05 (June 2012 – Used Abby’s Lane Rewards)
(1) Planet Wise Wet Bag
$15.67 (August 2012)
(1) Planet Wise Wet Bag
$15.67 (November 2012 – Replacing one with holes/broken zipper)
TOTAL PURCHASES = $669.40
Sold 4 Blueberry diapers for $14/pc = $56 (subtract from total since partial costs were recouped)
TOTAL INVESTMENT OVER 2 YRS = $613.40

The very first order—the prefolds and the snappis—was placed with Green Mountain Diapers. Every single order after that was placed with my favorite online cloth diaper store, Abby’s Lane. With Abby’s Lane, you get rewards dollars for every dollar you spend there, and over time you can accumulate enough to buy yourself free products. You’ll see a few times noted within the chart where I used those to bring down the total of a purchase.

Also, it should be noted that you can absolutely spend less money than this on cloth diapers. It depends on your needs, and how often you want to do laundry. We’ve discovered over time that having 24-25 diapers allows us to do diaper laundry only every three days, which we like. If you do laundry every other day, you can get by with ~6 fewer diapers. We also like having three wet bags for the three days at daycare. If you aren’t dealing with daycare, you may not need that many.

Now, how does this price breakdown compare to disposables, you might wonder? I wondered, too. So I did some math based on the cost of the disposables we’re currently using for nighttime—again, they are generic brand—and they cost $30.24 for a box of 140 diapers (or $0.21/diaper). A quick search on Amazon tells me that Pampers can be had for $0.23 to $0.36/diaper, depending on which type you get. As far as disposables are concerned, it appears that $0.21/diaper is pretty cheap.

I estimate that we use about six diapers per day for Nora. Obviously there are days when that is higher, and it WAS higher during the newborn days. But for the sake of this comparison, let’s use 6 diapers/day for the entirety of Nora’s life so far.

Nora is roughly 2 years and 70 days old.

365 x 2 + 70 = 800 days.
800 x 6 diapers =  4,800 diaper changes in her life (staggering, huh??)
4,800 / 140 diapers in a box = roughly 34 boxes of diapers
34 boxes x $30.24 = $1,028.16

Now, this isn’t an exact science. It’s rough math, since we haven’t ALWAYS bought disposables in bulk like this (so they’re more expensive per diaper in that case), and plus there are a few more diapers per package in the smaller sizes than in the size 4s she is in now. AND, we have bought a few boxes of diapers on sale as well, so those boxes would bring the cost down a little bit. I figure these two factors cancel each other out. In any case, you get the gist.

We have a high-efficiency front-loader washing machine, so I don’t see any real impact on our water bill. And for detergent, we use Charlie’s Soap, which we actually use for ALL of our laundry now. We do diaper laundry on every third day (so just twice a week), so although those extra scoops add up over time, I still don’t think it’s enough to negate the savings we’ve seen from cloth diapering.

In summary, we’ve spent $613.40 on cloth diapers. We would’ve spent approximately $1,028.16 on disposables through this point… it’s a savings of over $400 and she’s not even potty trained yet, so it’ll end up being even more savings by the time she is.

Oh, and we could potentially use these same diapers for a second kid! Even if we decide to get a fresh new stash for baby # 2 someday (which we actually might do), I’ll be able to sell our current diapers to recoup a portion of the money we spent… which you obviously can’t do with disposables. As far as I’m concerned, that’s all icing on the cake.

At the end of the day, it’s my philosophy that you have to want to cloth diaper for more than just the money savings. It’s not a TON of work, but it is more time consuming than pitching a disposable into the garbage, so you have to WANT to do it. I would absolutely do it again, and plan to with another child some day.

For us, cloth diapering a toddler is really no different than cloth diapering an infant. The exclusively breastfeeding days are definitely the easiest cloth diapering days, but once you get into a routine with the solids, it’s really no big deal.

Have I mentioned that cloth diapers are CUTE?! And colorful. Nora requests diapers by color. :)

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Now that I finished that beast of a post, and since we’re on the subject, I want to try help out my sister-in-law by seeing if anyone might possibly have an interest in buying some VERY gently used prefold diapers and Thirsties (Size 1) covers. My sister-in-law was so encouraged by our cloth diaper experience that she decided to do it for her own son (our 4-month-old nephew, Bryce). Bryce wasn’t much a fan of the prefolds, though, and Marie was able to get him into the one-size pocket diapers when he was only a month old. She only ended up using the prefolds and covers one time, but thankfully her cloth diapering experience has been smooth sailing ever since.

Prefolds and covers work well for a lot of other people, though—we used them starting when Nora was about two weeks old, all the way up to 8-10 weeks—so Marie is trying to unload her barely used diapers to a good home.

Up for sale are:

Marie is selling the whole lot for $75 plus shipping. Please leave a comment or e-mail me at heatherdriveblog@yahoo.com if you are interested and I’ll set you up with her.

 

You may have heard on Friday that Hostess (makers of Twinkies, cupcakes, Ho-Hos, Ding Dongs, and the like) is closing its doors. People all over the country are suddenly going nuts for Hostess. I saw several news stories talking about how the products are flying off of the shelves. People are trying to make a pretty penny off of reselling them on ebay and Craigslist. This is nonsense!

I myself couldn’t tell you the last time I ate a Hostess product. However, they hold a very special place in my heart because of memories of my childhood. I remember having many a Ho-Ho packed by my mom in my school lunches. While I was never a big fan of Twinkies, my grandaddy used to freeze them and they were a surprisingly refreshing treat on a hot summer day. And the Hostess Cupcakes were always a special indulgence. So in a way, I get the mourning.

But guys—you don’t have to search all over creation for the last remaining Hostess products. At least not the cupcakes. Not only is there a very good chance that the products will be bought up by another company and will continue to be made, but… you can make your very own Hostess Cupcakes at home. Look-alike Hostess Cupcakes, if you will. Or Faux-stess Cupcakes. :)

I made these homemade Hostess Cupcakes a few years ago, and I noticed that this original post has received A LOT of hits over the last few days. People are looking for alternative ways to get their Hostess fix, and I DON’T BLAME YOU. Because as soon as I clicked back on that post and saw the pics? I just had to make them again.

So Nora and I set out in the kitchen this weekend to make these cupcakes, and to give her her very first taste of a Hostess product… without so much of the processed crap.

Nora approves. You can find the recipe here. I hope they are everything you dream they will be. :)

 

You know you’re an adult (AND a nerd) when you get overly excited about buying a chest freezer.

Back in my breastfeeding days, I would’ve given A LOT of things in order to have a deep freezer. My “liquid gold” stash took up half of our freezer. Forget being able to fit a stockpile of anything else in there. But once we moved to the new house, I had already started weaning Nora, and our days of nursing soon came to an end.

And then I kind of forgot about freezers for a while.

We recently started discussing one again, and then we just randomly started shopping around for one this week. Next thing I knew, we bit the bullet and ordered one. It’ll be here in a week or so. And I am PSYCHED.

We bought this guy from Sears. It was on sale for an extra percentage off (it’s not anymore), and then I also found a coupon code online for an additional 5% on top of that. Good deal, and it’s a Kenmore, which is usually a good thing. Once it’s in, we’ll pick it up in the store and we plan to put it in our basement.

Then… we fill it. The only question now is, with what? :)

I want to do a bunch of freezer meals, which is something I haven’t been able to do too much of for a number of reasons—lack of the time commitment, plus the lack of freezer space. Remember when I stocked up our freezer before Nora was born? That was a beautiful thing.

Making dinner during the week can be hard. We don’t get home until nearly 6:00 p.m. most nights, and Nora goes to bed at 7:00ish. To be able to do the freezer meals—particularly crockpot freezer meals—seems like it will be life changing.

So, what are you favorite freezer meal recipes? Crockpot freezer meal recipes? I’ve pinned several posts about it on Pinterest, but of course I’m always looking for tried and true recommendations instead of random links. If I’m successful, I’ll certainly be back to let y’all know how it goes!

 

I had a really rough start to my Friday morning. Nora was in a mood to assert her independence and get her way. I was in the mood to stand my ground and teach her that she can’t always get what she wants.

It didn’t end well.

In fact, I experienced my single worst moments as a parent thus far. It was just… hard. My usually deep well of patience was sucked dry. I was more frustrated with Nora than I had ever been. I yelled at her. It was not a proud moment as a mother; I immediately felt horribly guilty about it.

And then I dropped her off at daycare.

It was nice in a way, because there was a reprieve. It was time away from each other, space to breathe, calm down, and forget. The bad side was that we were mad at each other when I dropped her off, and I had to stew with my feelings all day. I wanted nothing more than to hug her, to kiss her, to laugh, and to move on together.

I was reminded that I am still learning how to be a parent, and that I will always be learning. Every year she gets older is a new year of discovery for both of us. There are new rewards, but new challenges. I will have to navigate those uncharted waters in the same way that Nora will.

Parenthood is humbling.

But sure enough, I picked her up after work and it was as if nothing had happened. She saw me at the door, her face lit up, an enthusiastic “Mama!” escaped her lips and she came running to me, happy and carefree.

She didn’t remember the stress of the morning. She didn’t remember the anger or frustration on both of our parts. I had worried that she would be mad at me for being so angry at her and that things would somehow be different. But then, she taught me another lesson: Just as my love for her is unconditional, so is her love for me.

On these trying days, when we lose our tempers and get frustrated with each other, we are BOTH learning. She is learning that people who love each other do get angry with each other, but that the love is still there at the end of the day. She is also learning that she can’t always get her way.

And all of that is why the battle was worth fighting in the first place.