For all who were wondering how on Earth a playroom could look this spotless

…this is an example of what it looks like after Nora has had her way with it.

 
The parental cleaning service comes through at 7:30 p.m. every night, after the toddler is in bed. :) 
 
This is the way all kids “play,” right? With an attention span of 0.5 seconds before they move onto the next thing?
 

It is a day that has been hanging over my family for quite some time now. One that I could not really grasp until today. And although it certainly seems more real now than ever before, I think that in a lot of ways, I am still processing.

My brother, Trevor, will officially be deployed tomorrow morning.

This afternoon, we attended the “yellow ribbon ceremony” to send off his unit.

He will be gone for a year. It’s tough to comprehend. Thankfully, he’ll remain in the States for a little while, fulfilling the beginning weeks of his deployment in the deep south. Then, we don’t know what his destination will be. We have no idea where he’s going; and neither does he.

I am sad. I am sad for the hole that will be left in our family until he returns safely home. I am sad that when we have family dinners, there will be a notable absence for a while. I am sad for the birthdays, the holidays, and other important events he will miss. I am sad that we will only get to joke, to laugh, to make fun of our mom (sorry, Mom!) in a long-distance way. (But I do have to give a shout-out for the miracle that is Facetime. Thank you, Steve Jobs.)

I am scared. At the ceremony today, there was a lot of emphasis on coming home safely. That’s obviously numero uno, but for me, it’s a fear I can delay a bit–because like I said, we don’t even know where he’s going. So it’s actually hard to know if we should be scared. But I guess the fear right now is mainly focused in the unknown. So, we wait–just as he does–to find out what his assignment will be.

I am angry. I’m angry that there is even a need for soldiers. Anywhere. I wish that we could all just get along, sitting around a fire and singing kumbaya and all that shit. I’ll go all beauty queen on you and say that I wish for world peace. An impossibility, I know, but hey. I’m just putting it out there.

I am proud. I am proud of Trevor. For the man he is, and for the sacrifices he is making for this country. It may be a “war” that I cannot understand, but it doesn’t mean that I do not appreciate and recognize what the men and women in the military do for all of us. I love Trevor and love what he adds to our family. We fought a lot growing up–especially when we were teenagers, wow, there were some doozies–but we’re grown-ups now.

That’s how Trevor’s deployment affects me. But the thing that gets to me the most–the thing that gives me a ball of anxiety in my gut–is not about me. It’s about the little family he has made.

{Trevor and Kara’s wedding day – May 21, 2011}

When I pray with Nora before putting her to bed each night, it is the three of them that I pray for. For safety, for peace, for strength. That the year may fly by for them so that they can all be together again before they know it.

As we sat at the ceremony today, you could hear the sounds of small children all around. Many of these kids were going to be saying goodbye to their daddies, or their mommies, for an entire year. And that’s just… heartbreaking.

Sitting among all of these people, it really hit me: Kara, Hunter, and our family–we’re not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of people throughout this country–and millions around the world–who are affected in this very same way.

{Hunter, searching the group of soldiers for his daddy}

It is with great pride that we send Trevor off to serve with the U.S. Army National Guard.

But we will miss him.

And we’ll be counting down the days until he’s home.

 

It’s Friday night. It’s been a busy week.

Michael and I are drooling over the backsplash tile we’re 99% sure we’re going with for our kitchen.

There’s a fire in the fireplace. And there’s wine.

And TurboTax. That’s right, we’re starting our taxes. What can I say? We like to party.

But I wanted to drop in quickly to announce the Penguin Personalization giveaway winner. Thanks to all of you who entered–I’m sorry everyone can’t win! But it sounded like all of you really liked all of Megan’s work (see it again at www.penguinpersonalization.com), so I hope you will consider ordering from her in the future for all of your embroidered items. Personalized gifts, FTW!

We used random.org to pick a number. Without further ado, the winner is…


#14!
(In case you’re wondering, we did 1-51 instead of 52 because there was a duplicate comment, so I counted that as only one comment.)

And to save you all from counting, #14 is… (drumroll, please)

Jessica, I will e-mail you. I need you to respond within 72 hours to be eligible to receive the prize, mmkay? :) Congratulations!

Giveaways are fun! I’m not going to go all giveaway crazy on you guys or anything (that would just be annoying), but hopefully I’ll have the opportunity to do another one relatively soon.

Have great weekends, everyone!

 

First, let me say thank you to all who left such kind comments on our playroom reveal post on Monday. It was so fun to finally be able to show you a little part of our house. Dare I say that it motivates me to finish other rooms just to be able to share those, too? :)

Anyway, I promised to follow up the playroom photos with some additional details about a few of the projects we completed for the room. The one that seems to garner the most interest from people–both online and in real life–is the alphabet wall.

Honestly, our ABC wall made the room for us. It’s a pretty big wall, and before, it was a blank canvas, staring at us every time we were in there. Since it’s a playroom without any real furniture, there was nothing against the wall to “anchor” the whole thing, so it was tough to figure out what we wanted to do with it. We considered some other art–prints, mostly–but all of it seemed too small. And a lot of the art I’ve spotted and liked (like this) is expensive.

I had pinned a few alphabet walls on Pinterest (like this and this), and I kept coming back to them as a solution for our giant wall. At one point, I showed Michael the photos, and he was sold. That, in turn, sold me.

I immediately began to seek letters. I wanted to find as large a variety as I could, and I knew from experience with other letter projects (Nora’s name on her nursery wall, the D-A-D we did for Michael for Father’s Day) that Michaels and Joann Fabrics only had a few varieties. But at some point, someone (maybe Niki?) suggested Hobby Lobby.

I don’t even remember when Hobby Lobby opened locally, but there is only one here. It’s relatively new, at least, and the crafty girl inside me is ashamed to admit that I had never been. Although it’s not exactly FAR from where we live, it is somewhat of an inconvenience to get to, and Michaels and Joann’s are closer–so I just never really had a reason to go to Hobby Lobby before. My search for letters led me over there, however, and I will say that as soon as I walked in the door, I was blown away.

Why hello, Hobby Lobby. Where have you been all of my life?

Love at first sight, people. And, as it turned out, for good reason–because I hit the freaking jackpot for letters at this store. Every time I thought that I had definitely found every variety they had, I stumbled upon another. That was the only complaint I had: their letters were scattered all over the store, not just in one easy-to-browse section. BUT let’s just say that I was not exactly sad about having an excuse to scour every inch of the store.

After initially collecting something like 15 different letters at Hobby Lobby, we made separate trips to Michaels and Joann Fabrics to round out our alphabet collection. Over the course of a week or so, we collected everything we needed.

To decorate each letter, we also picked up a variety of acrylic paint colors (some I already had in my stash, others we picked out new), and some fun scrapbook papers. Then, we got to work. We spent several of Nora’s naptimes and evenings decorating our letters. First, we laid them all out in order and I mapped out a plan to utilize a variety of patterns and colors. I made note of the color or scrapbook paper that we planned to use for each letter, and we did our best to envision what the finished product would look like (it was impossible).

Many of the letters were simply painted. With others, we painted the edges (or left them plain) and then I covered the front of the letter with scrapbook paper using Mod Podge. I used a foam brush to spread Mod Podge on the letter, placed it face-down on the back side of the scrapbook paper, and spread out any crinkles the best I could. Then, after letting it dry for several minutes, I used an exacto knife to trace the letter on the paper, cutting away the excess paper. Once I was done cutting, I covered the top of the paper (the front of it, the nice decorative side) with a layer of Mod Podge to seal everything and give it a nice protective finish.

Some of the letters were super easy, because they were already complete when we bought them (such as the C, the G, the N–printed on our computer, the O–a clock!, and the R–left unpainted).

I actually spray painted the J and the Z. The J is just plain white semi-gloss spray paint, so that was simple. With the Z, I first spray painted it all white, let it dry for 24 hours, and then taped stripes on it with painter’s tape. Then I used black semi-gloss paint to spray it again. Once dry, I peeled off the tape, and ta-da! Zebra print.

Once the letters were all finished, it was time to figure out how to hang them all. First, we laid them out in a “pattern” on the floor to determine how many letters to put in a row, how much space to put between them, etc. I took photos of our layout on my phone to reference as I did the hanging.

Then, we had to actually attach hanging hardware to each of the letters. You know, the little hooks that are on the back of picture frames? A lot of the letters didn’t have those, so we had to add them. We bought a variety of picture hanging hardware at Hobby Lobby, and I used different ones, depending on a lot of factors–the thickness of the letter, the amount of space on the back, etc.

Finally, it was time to hang everything.

I wish it went that quickly in real life. :)

It actually really wasn’t that bad, but I did do it over a period of about 3-4 days. As you can kinda-sorta see in the slideshow (and in the photo below), we utilized a laser level for the top row to make sure we were working on a straight line. We also taped a yard stick to the left side to mark the left edge, and used painter’s tape to mark the right edge. The goal was to hang all of the letters, fairly evenly, and space them out to span the entire length between the yard stick and the painter’s tape.

To hang each letter, we used a variety of methods–picture hanging hooks and finishing nails, mostly. Again, it depended on the letter, the type of hardware we had used on the back, and how much space there was between the hardware and the top of the letter.

And then our alphabet wall was finally DONE! So we stood back and admired it. Every day. We still do. :)

Time consuming, but worth it. And educational, too. We’re working on teaching Nora each of the letters already. (Just kidding. Kind of.)

Don’t forget to enter the giveaway for a monogrammed MINT cosmo bag from Penguin Personalization! It ends Friday, you know.

 
This review has been a long time coming, folks. Five months in the making.
Mommy blogger FAIL.
But now, the stars have aligned. Megan over at Penguin Personalization is ready, I’ve actually remembered to sit down and do this, and all systems are finally a go.
REWINDING… I had so many ideas in my head of what I wanted Nora’s birthday party to look like. I settled on an ice cream cone theme pretty early on, and started envisioning the details–the invitations, the food, the cake, a perfect sundae bar with fixings set up straight out of a magazine, the decor… and the birthday girl’s outfit, of course.
Because of the timing of our move, I had to let pretty much all of it go (except the outfit!). It was still a nice party and everything was cute–but it was thrown together last-minute and it just did not completely live up to my Martha Stewart-like expectations for myself. But I long ago decided to give myself a break given the circumstances, SO I DIGRESS.
Anyway, a week or so before the party, I realized that I hadn’t yet figured out what I was going to do for Nora’s outfit. I had found a cute jean skirt I wanted her to wear, but I was at a loss for the t-shirt. I had been searching for something that would tie into our ice cream theme, but hadn’t had much luck in stores. Online, I had pinned a number of options, but… I certainly hadn’t left myself very much time.
And then I remembered Megan, who started up her own little business, Penguin Personalization. Megan and I “met” 4+ years ago when we were both planning our June 2008 weddings–hers in Louisiana, mine in New York. I shot her a quick e-mail asking if she would be able to do a custom embroidered t-shirt for me, and she not only agreed to get it to me in time for Nora’s birthday (only about a week away), but also offered to give the shirt to me for a review AND sponsor a giveaway on my blog. That Megan; gotta love her. Seriously, though, at that time in my life I was possibly more stressed than I had ever been, so Megan was honestly a lifesaver. I almost cried. :)
So, point #1: Megan is flexible, friendly, and a doll to work with.
Once I described to Megan what I was looking for–a colorful shirt with an ice cream cone, perhaps Nora’s name, and I liked the idea of a cherry on top–she went to work, creating several custom designs for me. She e-mailed me the concepts, and I was really impressed with her creativity. For one of them, instead of just a plain ol’ cherry on top of the ice cream, she had made the “cherry” a #1! How cute is that? Of course, we picked that design.
Megan was also really helpful in determining the best size t-shirt to order for Nora. With inconsistent sizing among clothing brands, it can be really difficult to order things sight unseen, but Megan did her best to relay the brands and sizes to me in ways I could relate to (i.e. I was somewhat familiar with Walmart’s sizing, and Carter’s).
When the t-shirt arrived in the mail just a few days later, I was thrilled with the result. The applique/embroidery is of great quality, and done in a way that doesn’t cause any “puckering” or other unsightly problems with the t-shirt fabric. We couldn’t wait for Nora to wear it at her party.
As you might know by now, Nora’s party was a success, and we received many compliments on her t-shirt. She wore it several more times throughout September, and the embroidery held up just fine in the washing machine.

If you’re looking for custom t-shirts for your babes, I highly recommend Megan and Penguin Personalization.
And, she doesn’t JUST do t-shirts; Megan has a variety of personalized products available, such as hats, towels, blankets, bags, handkerchiefs, and more. Peruse her website and Facebook pages to see some of her work. If there’s something you’d like but don’t see, or it’s listed as out of stock, be sure to contact Megan directly at penguinpersonalization@gmail.com. One of the biggest advantages to working with her is that she can do pretty much anything (after all, it’s personalized, y’all). Here is just a selection of the things she can do:


THE GIVEAWAY

Now… Megan/Penguin Personalization has offered to give away a MINT (brand) Cosmo Bag with an embroidered initial to one lucky Heather Drive reader! These bags (shown below) are really versatile, as they can be used as a makeup bag, wipe case, purse organizer, a case for pens and pencils, etc. Surely you could find a use for it, or give it away as a gift!

Giveaway Prize:
(1) MINT Cosmo Bag, embroidered with an initial from Penguin Personalization

Please make sure to follow the entry instructions carefully. They’re not difficult, but you must follow the instructions in order to be eligible to win.

To enter, simply leave a comment on this post telling me your favorite item/design from Penguin Personalization’s website or Facebook page. Also, please leave an e-mail address where you can be contacted if you win.

Limitations:
Only one comment/entry per person. Giveaway open only to residents of the United States. (Sorry to all of my international readers!)

Deadline:
This giveaway will end at 8 p.m. EST on Friday, January 27. Entries left after the deadline will be ineligible to win.

Winner:
One winner will be chosen using random.org. The winner will be announced on my blog and will be e-mailed notification of the win. Winner has 72 hours to respond to my initial contact, or a new winner will be chosen.

Good luck!

Disclaimer: Penguin Personalization provided Nora’s custom birthday t-shirt at no cost to me, in exchange for my review of the product. However, opinions expressed within the review are my own. (I hope you know me well enough by now to know that I wouldn’t positively review a product that I wouldn’t back anyway, whether I paid for it or not!). Penguin Personalization is also sponsoring the MINT Cosmo Bag giveaway.